Hair-care guide

The Curly Girl Method, step by step

TheWashDay editorial · Updated · From Lorraine Massey’s own site, Wikipedia, the book’s publisher and published studies · How we compare

Jump to a section

The Curly Girl Method is a wash-day routine for wavy, curly and coily hair from stylist Lorraine Massey’s book Curly Girl: The Handbook, first published in 2001. It comes down to three steps and a short list of things to leave out: wash without sulfates, condition without silicones and leave some conditioner in, then style with gel on soaking-wet hair and let it dry without brushes, terry towels or hot tools. Her own product line also leaves out drying alcohols and waxes, and those four ingredient groups are what we check every label for below.

At a glance

What the method asksWhat to check
Wash A water-soluble cleanser with no sulfates, or a conditioner used to cleanse (co-washing), massaged into the scalp with your fingertips.No sulfate on the label
Condition Plenty of silicone-free conditioner, finger-combed through while it’s in, with some or all of it left in.No silicone on the label
Style A water-soluble, silicone-free gel on soaking-wet hair, left to dry into a cast and then scrunched out.No silicone, drying alcohol or wax on the label
Tools Your fingers instead of brushes and combs; a cotton T-shirt or paper towel instead of a terry towel.Nothing on a label
Drying Air-drying, a diffuser or a hood dryer instead of a blow-dryer or flat iron.Nothing on a label

The ingredient rules, read on 177 real labels

124 of the 177 hair products we compare list no sulfates, silicones, drying alcohols or waxes. See them by wash-day step or filter every product by these four.

Group What counts Labels that list it Names on those labels
Sulfates Sulfate detergents such as Sodium Laureth Sulfate and Sodium Lauryl Sulfate. Behentrimonium Methosulfate is a conditioner, not a detergent, and Magnesium Sulfate is a salt, so neither counts. 4 of 177 Sodium Lauryl Sulfate, Ammonium Laureth Sulfate, Sodium Coco-Sulfate, Sodium Laureth Sulfate
Silicones Names ending in -cone, -conol or -siloxane, such as Dimethicone, Amodimethicone and Cyclopentasiloxane, including the ones with PEG or PPG in the name. 27 of 177 Amodimethicone, Dimethicone, Cyclopentasiloxane, Trimethylsiloxyamodimethicone, and 15 more
Drying alcohols Alcohol, Alcohol Denat., SD Alcohol, Ethanol, Isopropyl Alcohol and Propanol. Fatty alcohols such as Cetearyl, Cetyl and Stearyl Alcohol are conditioning ingredients, and Benzyl Alcohol is a preservative, so they don’t count. 21 of 177 Isopropyl Alcohol, Alcohol Denat., Alcohol, Ethyl Alcohol, Isopropanol
Waxes Beeswax, candelilla, carnauba, sunflower seed wax, microcrystalline wax and paraffin. Waxes made to mix with water (PEG-8 Beeswax) and Emulsifying Wax don’t count. 10 of 177 Helianthus Annuus (Sunflower) Seed Wax, Microcrystalline Wax (Cera Microcristallina), Beeswax, Copernicia Cerifera (Carnauba) Wax, and 4 more

Where label lists disagree

Group What counts Labels that list it Names on those labels
Olefin sulfonates Sodium C14-16 Olefin Sulfonate and the other strong sulfonate detergents. Their names don’t say sulfate, so a sulfate-free label can still list one. 19 of 177 Sodium C14-16 Olefin Sulfonate
Mineral oil and petrolatum Mineral Oil (Paraffinum Liquidum), Petrolatum, Paraffin and Microcrystalline Wax: oils and waxes refined from petroleum that water alone doesn’t rinse out. 4 of 177 Microcrystalline Wax (Cera Microcristallina), Petrolatum, Mineral Oil, Paraffin, Paraffinum Liquidum (Mineral Oil)
Silicones with PEG or PPG in the name Silicones made to mix with water, such as PEG-12 Dimethicone. Some lists allow them; the originator’s says no silicones. 5 of 177 Dimethicone PEG-7 Isostearate, PEG-7 Amodimethicone, Dimethicone PEG-8 Cocoate, PEG-PPG-15/15 Acetate Dimethicone, and 2 more

We read each name on the maker’s current ingredient list. A label we don’t have never counts as free of anything, and no label says whether a polymer dissolves in water, so the originator’s “non-water-soluble polymers” can’t be checked this way.

The method’s three steps

  1. Wash, no sulfates
  2. Condition, leave some in
  3. Gel on wet hair
Diagram. Wash without sulfates, condition and leave some in, then put gel on soaking-wet hair and let it dry untouched. The numbered steps below say the same in full.
  1. Wet your hair and work a sulfate-free cleanser, or a cleansing conditioner, into your scalp with firm circles of your fingertips. If you’re coming off sulfate shampoo, Massey suggests keeping your usual washing days at first and simply swapping the shampoo.
  2. Rinse, then glide a generous amount of silicone-free conditioner down your hair with your fingers. Massey calls this squeeze-quench: when your hair feels like wet seaweed and makes a squishy sound as you squeeze it, it has enough. Work out knots with your fingers while the conditioner is in.
  3. Leave some or all of the conditioner in. Tighter or drier curls need more, and so does hair that has been colored, straightened or dried with heat.
  4. While your hair is still soaking wet, smooth or scrunch in a water-soluble, silicone-free gel.
  5. Blot the water out with a cotton T-shirt or a paper towel, pressing rather than rubbing.
  6. Let your hair dry without touching it: in the air, under a diffuser or under a hood dryer. The gel dries into a stiff shell, the cast, which holds each curl’s shape as it dries.
  7. Once your hair is completely dry, tip your head forward and scrunch upward to break the cast. That’s scrunching out the crunch, and it leaves soft, defined curls.

Why the method leaves these out

Massey’s reasoning is about dryness and build-up. Sulfates, her site says, strip the hair and leave it dry and dull. Silicones, often there to help detangling, build up a film along the hair that attracts dirt and keeps conditioner from reaching it. Her product line also leaves out drying alcohols, waxes and polymers that don’t dissolve in water, for the same reasons.

The two main rules travel together. Silicones such as dimethicone repel water, so a gentle cleanser or a conditioner wash leaves more of them behind than a sulfate shampoo would. Give up sulfates and keep silicones, and the silicones build up.

Dermatology describes the same chemistry without endorsing the method. A 2015 review of hair cosmetics in the International Journal of Trichology lists sulfates such as sodium laureth sulfate, along with alpha-olefin sulfonate, among the anionic detergents that remove oil and dirt very well but are strong cleaners that can leave hair with more frizz and friction. The same review notes that wavy and curly hair tends to have an oily scalp but drier lengths.

None of this makes the method a treatment. It’s a stylist’s method, built from salon work rather than clinical research, and a few wash days will tell you more about your own hair than any rule.

Where label checkers disagree

Lists of what the method allows don’t all agree. These are the names they split on:

  • Olefin sulfonate. Sodium C14-16 Olefin Sulfonate is a detergent from the same anionic family as the sulfates, but its name doesn’t say sulfate, so many “sulfate-free” shampoos use it. Strict lists leave it out; the originator’s list names sulfates.
  • Silicones with PEG or PPG in the name, such as PEG-12 Dimethicone, are made to mix with water. Some lists allow them; Massey’s says no silicones at all.
  • Mineral oil and petrolatum don’t dissolve in water, and many lists add them under the build-up rule. The originator’s product line names waxes and non-water-soluble polymers instead.
  • Cetearyl, cetyl and stearyl alcohol are fatty alcohols that soften hair and thicken conditioners. They aren’t drying alcohols, though a list that flags every word “alcohol” will catch them.
  • Behentrimonium Methosulfate has “sulfate” in its name but is a conditioning ingredient, not a detergent.
  • Protein isn’t a Curly Girl Method rule at all. Some people find it leaves their hair stiff and leave it out as a separate choice.

Starting the method

Many people begin with one last wash using a sulfate or clarifying shampoo, to clear silicones and other build-up their old products left behind, and then switch. If your current products list none of the four groups, there’s nothing to clear.

You don’t need a new bottle for every step. Check what’s already on your shelf with the ingredient checker and keep whatever passes. Then change one product at a time where you can, so you know what made the difference, and give each change a few wash days before you judge it.

On wavy or fine hair

The full method, with plenty of conditioner left in, can weigh wavy or fine hair down until it falls flat. Massey’s own routine for wavy hair is lighter: conditioner on the mid-lengths and ends, kept off the roots, and rinsed out thoroughly so its weight doesn’t leave the waves flat. She adds that short, baby-fine waves sometimes need no conditioner after washing at all.

For styling she suggests a shallow palmful of gel scrunched into hair that is wet but squeezed out, clips at the roots for lift, and drying with a diffuser on a low to medium setting or under a hood dryer, so the water and gel don’t weigh the waves down while they set.

Many people also use a sulfate-free shampoo rather than co-washing, and wash as often as their roots need; sulfate-free shampoo and occasional diffusing with a heat protectant are among the method’s most popular variations.

What a label check can’t tell you

A label that lists none of the four groups fits the method’s ingredient rules. It doesn’t promise anything about your curls: how much you use, how you put it on and the water in your shower matter as much.

“CG-friendly” or “Curly Girl approved” on a bottle is the maker’s or a shop’s own reading of its label. No official body checks those words, and the lists behind them differ, so read the names yourself.

Questions before your next wash

Is the Curly Girl Method good for wavy hair?

It can be, usually with a lighter hand: conditioner on the ends and rinsed out, a smaller amount of gel, and drying with a diffuser or a hood dryer. The method was written for waves as well as curls and coils.

Can I use a clarifying shampoo on the Curly Girl Method?

Yes, if its label lists none of the four groups: plenty of clarifying shampoos use no sulfates. Many people on the method clarify now and then to clear build-up or hard-water minerals.

Is cetearyl alcohol allowed on the Curly Girl Method?

Yes. Cetearyl alcohol is a fatty alcohol that softens hair and thickens conditioners. The alcohols the method leaves out are the drying ones: alcohol denat., SD alcohol, ethanol and isopropyl alcohol.

Is behentrimonium methosulfate a sulfate?

Not in the method’s sense. It’s a conditioning ingredient whose name happens to end in sulfate, and it doesn’t wash anything out.

Is sodium C14-16 olefin sulfonate Curly Girl approved?

Lists disagree. It isn’t a sulfate by name, but it’s a strong detergent from the same family, so strict lists leave it out. The originator’s list names sulfates only.

Do I have to give up heat?

Massey advises against blow-dryers and flat irons and suggests air-drying, a diffuser or a hood dryer instead. If you diffuse, a heat protectant goes on first.

Updated · The sources for this guide are on our Sources page. Report a changed detail.

Your next step